No matter where you are at in your training and in general in your life you will always come across some hardships.  It could be monetarily, family, Instructor or student issues or simply so many more issues that could develop into a hardship.  Truthfully how you deal with these hardships is what is important.  When confronted with something that is hard or difficult I try to figure out a way to turn it into a positive.  Throughout my life this has served me very well even through some difficult and trying times.  Any advice I give here will always change depending on the hardship but several things are generally true in how I deal with something. 

First I contemplate about what is going on.

Secondly I look for a solution to the problem and a way to implement the solution.

Thirdly I implement the solution and then see if it works.

Fourth if everything works then I move on in a positive manner!  If not then I start contemplating all over again on how to effectively deal with the hardship and turn it into a positive!

     Now that last little bit is essential in that I try to turn everything into a positive experience!  Sometimes it may end up absolutely a great experience in the end and at other times it might just be a learning experience.  Still in general I am a positive individual and look to continue on in that manner!  So taking a hardship and contemplating about it, then implementing a solution and moving on in a positive manner works very well for me!

     Everyone is different so what works for me may not work for you but you will never know if you do not try!  Next time you are confronted with a hardship or any difficulty find a way to turn it into a positive!

Positive Minds Make For Strong Minds!  Embrace The Positive!

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Brian R. VanCise

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